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Massage for Pregnant
Men
Certainly, human males can't get pregnant. (Not yet anyway.)
But couples often say 'We are pregnant' when announcing their
joyous news to friends and loved ones. So, sometimes, it's
helpful for the man to consider himself as expecting also. One
of the things his mate may be expecting, besides a child, is a
good massage. So, in the interest of harmonious relations, it's
a good idea to know something about the subject...
Massage can relieve many of the common side effects of
pregnancy. Back and neck pain, just to name two, are frequent
complaints particularly in the later stages.
Massage not only reduces physical discomfort, but has the added
value of lowering stress, both physical and emotional. Among
the consequences are more limber joints, muscles that are
better prepared for labor, improved circulation and fewer
headaches.
But the good things don't stop there. Less sciatic pain, fewer
calf cramps, reduced swelling in the hands and feet and other
benefits can also flow from a good, regular massage. A good
massage helps carry away lactic acid build-up in the muscles.
That makes massage more than just a pleasant indulgence, but a
real health issue.
But, particularly in the later stages, lying on the stomach on
a standard table is out of the question. Lying flat on the
back, though possible, isn't advisable, either. After about six
months, lying flat on the back can cause excessive pressure on
blood vessels, reducing circulation to the growing baby.
Fortunately, resolving that problem is simple. Special tables
with cut-outs are available, or expectant mothers can be
massaged while lying on the side, properly propped up by
pillows to provide support.
To begin, once the mom-to-be is made as comfortable as
possible, a scented oil may be desired. Always consult the
recipient, though. Hormonal changes during pregnancy produce
altered reactions to smells. Some that were once considered
pleasant are now perceived as vile. Some essential oils can
actually be harmful, such as those including basil or jasmine.
They can stimulate contractions.
It's important to seek extra feedback from the recipient than
might normally be called for. Joints and tissues become more
sensitive to pressure during pregnancy, one of the results of
hormonal changes and carrying more weight. Deep tissue and
similar techniques are generally to be avoided during
pregnancy. Keep it smooth, relaxing and gentle. Save the
vigorous sports massage for six months after delivery.
Sessions for pregnant women tend to be shorter, since staying
in one position for lengthy periods is more difficult. Bathroom
trips are more frequent. But sessions should be more frequent
to combat the discomfort that accompanies pregnancy.
Consult the family physician before beginning any massage
therapy. He or she can provide more tips and precautions on how
to enjoy massage safely and effectively.
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